Imperfectly Wonderful

Like many women, I struggle a bit with perfectionism.
The idea that in order for me to spend my time doing something, I must do it right.
You know the feeling right?
I can’t vacuum right now because I don’t have time to do a really good job.
I can’t make pancakes because they are not as good as my husband’s.
I can’t plant those flowers by the front door because I really need to relandscape the entire yard.

And so, instead of doing something imperfectly, I do perfectly nothing.
A couple of weeks ago I promised my daughter a picnic. I got out my grandma’s blue blanket and a cute wicker basket. But when I reached for the bread, all I found were two heels and crumbs.
My first instinct was to cancel the picnic, but I had promised, so I started looking for Picnic Fare: Plan B.
Here is what I came up with:
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Please note the leftover “happy birthday” plates. In addition, the tubs of pasta and salad would not fit in the cute wicker basket; it had to be replaced by a plastic grocery sack.

We I lugged the blanket and food all over trying to find the perfect spot.
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We ended up in the dirt, by the creek.
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It was lovely.

My girl spent her time throwing rocks in the water,
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and putting on a show for her captive audience,
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while I lay back on the blanket and took in the sights.
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It was a perfect moment.

Until we realized that the patch of dirt we spread our blanket on was really a dog toilet.
Somewhere there’s a metaphor in this. Any suggestions?

10 Responses to Imperfectly Wonderful
  1. Amanda
    July 29, 2008 | 7:53 am

    What beautiful pics and setting and everything! Sounds like a really great afternoon!

    I tried to email you this but it was returned “mailer demon” so here is my reply…thanks so much for visiting and sharing your thoughts!!

    God bless-

    Wasn’t that father just awesome??? I had imagines it was the other way around when reading the words before the video…

    You should also check out http://www.5minutesformom.com/3864/sampler-three-year-old/
    I am struggling so much as of late… 3 years olds are no easy task… but thankfully, I have the most powerful source of Good and Truth in the universe backing me up!!

    Many blessings to a wonderful and happy day-
    Amanda

  2. Annabelle@Christian Momma
    July 29, 2008 | 8:08 am

    I’m tackling just being quiet…settling myself down enough to hear God

    Annabelle@Christian Mommas last blog post..“Speak Lord, for your servant is listening”

  3. The Frugal Momma
    July 29, 2008 | 8:39 am

    Great Tackle! Looks like a nice peaceful (minus the toilet) place!

  4. Erin
    July 29, 2008 | 9:09 am

    Yep – count me in on that… Just like you, I want things so perfect that I do nothing at all. Hence why my house is always such a mess, and I have lists and lists of things to do.

    I know it is something I have to work on because it is driving me insane!

    I love that you post twice a day – I can barely make it every other day, lol.

    Erins last blog post..My newest gig – again!

  5. Queen B
    July 29, 2008 | 9:17 am

    That is such a great reminder. We did a pitiful little picnic last year and my daughter talked about it for months. We need to do it again.

    Queen Bs last blog post..Oh The Things I Never Knew

  6. munchkinsandmusic
    July 29, 2008 | 9:52 am

    I’m trying to figure out blogging, and a time to go enjoy this Alaskan sun we are having today! Yea!

    munchkinsandmusics last blog post..Little White Duck

  7. genny
    July 29, 2008 | 3:46 pm

    Heidi,
    That last part had me cracking up! But, I have to say, that really looks like it was a very perfect day. Beautiful.

    gennys last blog post..The Story About the Best Friends on the Train

  8. Muthering Heights
    July 29, 2008 | 7:56 pm

    It looks like a great afternoon!

  9. Janalyn
    July 30, 2008 | 1:41 pm

    Way to improvise and make due. I think pasta and salad make a much better picnic anyway! By the way, which park did you go to?

  10. jenn
    July 30, 2008 | 6:15 pm

    i love it when my kids remind me that they just really don’t care if something is perfect. more often than not they want me not some perfect version of me i try to create. i’ve learned to laugh at myself over the years.

    so glad you had a lovely picnic despite the untraditional aspects of it!

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